I won’t name names, but one day we went into a favorite Ankeny restaurant that we have eaten in about ten times before this visit. We were seated and then waited. We watched as others were seated at their tables after us. We watched as those coming in after us were asked for their beverage orders and received their orders. All of this time no waiter or manager or anybody came and gave us a menu, asked for our order or anything. I even waved at the guy who had seated us and got no response. So being hungry and probably frustrated by a few other things going on in the day earlier, we got up and left. We went to another restaurant to eat.
Now the ten or so times we had eaten there previous to this incident, we had great and prompt service and excellent food. It was an all around good time and experience, except for this one time.
Now I will go back to this restaurant because, it might have been an off day for them as it had been for me to begin with. And because I had plenty of good previous experience.
Now church shopping.
If you are church shopping, do not just attend once and make your judgement. Maybe the pastor had an off day or the guitar strings broke on the worship leader that day. Maybe the person seated next to you had a bad day and didn’t think to greet you.
So my recommendation is to try a church more than once. Give them a chance to see if this one day was not good or maybe you just didn’t connect yourself on this day. Ask some questions about the church, things that might be of interest to you.
Now for the congregation. We need to remember that as we come into church, sit down and worship and as we leave, it is our job to do customer service. Put on a smile, greet someone with a welcome. Do not overstep your greeting with a whole encyclopedia of information on the pastor’s hair cut. Find a good balance of friendliness and welcome. Offer your name and let someone new know that you really are glad that they are there.
When we went on vacation this summer and attended a church we had never been to, just about everyone there greeted us. It was almost a little overwhelming, but they were friendly. When we went up for communion, the pastor called my wife and I by name as she offered the elements to us and the usher gave us a coffee mug before the benediction. If I moved to that community I would go to that church. And maybe there would be a day that no one said, “boo” to us, but if the overall service and friendliness is there after several visits, I still know that it’s the place for me.
Church Shoppers, you are welcome at Crossroads anytime, just give us a second try before you make any final decision.